13 years old
After I completed the other post Puzzling History, I went into Henry’s room and told him what I knew based on the 1930 Census. I shared with him that John Wilson could not be the boy in the photo because he was 18 when Henry was born. I also told him that John Wilson was the grandson of the Sam and Sarah Hodge, and that John Wilson, Sr. was the Son-in-law.
|Henry’s brother (unk name for now) and Henry|
I said that the mother is not on the 1930 Census, and wanted to know if she had died. When I shared with him what I knew he opened up and told me that John Wilson Sr.’s wife was his mother and had seen her a few times and that she ran off with the man that was Henry’s father, and left him with his grandparents that raised him as their own son (they adopted him). Mr. John Wilson was not his biological father and Mr. Sam Hodge would not ever say that he was Henry’s father or even give him that emotional support. Apparently there were negative feelings towards the situation so the environment was not good for Henry’s upbringing.
Months ago I asked Henry about Sam Hodge and he would say oh, that’s my dad. He would not tell me anything more even though I tried. He would tell me he was a man, and he was unemployed for many years, but he did not talk to him. Of course this made me sad for his home situation when he was a child.
Henry left St. Louis when he joined the military and only went back to bury each of his parents. In due time, I will get more stories from Henry, but seeing that there are deep-rooted negative feelings that he has not dealt with, I will need to do a little at a time so I have a complete picture.
So the boy in the photo above is Henry’s brother. Apparently she took his half-brother with her when she left St. Louis, MO. I will get more info as time goes on.